FiT (Families in Training)


FiT is our ministry to young families at STBC. This active group includes newly married couples without children through families with children in upper elementary school. We'd love to have you join us. For more information, contact FiT Leaders

 Marriage Moment

Read this great article this week - thought we should share it in its entirety:

The pressures, temptations and even genuinely good opportunities coming from the outside of our marriages are limitless. They don’t wait for invitation to intrude into our relationship with our spouse – they show up by themselves.

If we want to prevent that from happening, we must become active and protect our marriage. We have to recognize the dangers and put up well balanced boundaries, before these things come between us and our spouse. We need to learn to say no to them, before they have become so strong, that we can’t seem to fend them off anymore. We must learn to work diligently but to say no to excessive demands of our boss at work, as they will grow if we give in to them too often. We have to teach limits to our children, so that they learn to respect our need to spend time without them. We have to learn to honor our parents while still being able to say no to to them. Whatever or whoever we’re dealing with – we have to make clear that only one human being can have top priority in our life. And that is our spouse. The later we start that, the more difficult it will be . . . but it is never too late to start.

This is not just a recommendation that comes from experience. It is a command from God.

They are no longer two, but one. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no man separate (Matthew 19:6).

We must guard our marriage, so that the outside world cannot separate it. We must protect its core – the love between husband and wife. This doesn’t come for free – it will cost us a lot. But our marriage is only as strong as what we invest into it.

We are striving for a Kingdom marriage just like you and we are here for you! Call, email, stop on by - our door is always open!

- Michael and Carol Brown

Michael 918-760-5612 -
Carol 918-740-9694  -


WOW! The Progressive Dinner was a huge success and a good time was had by all! Thank you to Erin Zimmerman and the Social Committee for organizing! 

Worthwhile Parenting Seminar - May 2

Some FIT families are already planning to attend. Check this link for specific details.
Instructing a Child’s Heart Seminar
The Bible Church of Owasso

Friday, May 2, 2014 at 6:30 PM - Saturday, May 3, 2014 at 12:30 PM (PDT)

Awesome movie from Focus on the Family coming May 6!

For more than 35 years now, Focus on the Family has been sharing the wonderful truth about God’s design for family. This time, they’re doing it on the big screen! Focus on the Family's Irreplaceable addresses the primary themes of family and fatherhood. Tickets for this one-night event in theaters are now available. It's not too early to reserve space for all who would like to attend! The Irreplaceable screening in Tulsa will be on Tuesday, May 6.

To whet your appetite, click on the link below! We will have sign-ups available starting this coming Sunday in Sunday School

 Openings in Guatemala Mission Trips!

There are openings in both upcoming Guatemala Mission Trips.  The one in April (leave Saturday, April 26th back Saturday, May 3rd) will build houses and do house to house evangelism.  There is a need for 5 more adults (women are really needed – there are only 2 going at this point) so that there are 15 total. Mike and Carol Brown are going on this trip and would love to have other FIT folks go with.
There is also an opening for a family of 3 or 4 in the Guatemala Family Mission Trip, Saturday, June 14 through Saturday, June 21.
Several FIT families with kids ranging from 5 to 11 are already attending and activities during the trip will be designed to both make an impact in the community and in our families.
The cost for either trip will be approximately $1,400/person. So a family of 3 will be $4,200. That covers all transportation, meals, hotel, translators, etc. Basically everything except souvenirs.
If interested, please email Nathan Sweaney as soon as possible. (
Can't go to Guatemala this time?
Be a part by being a prayer partner and/or helping to finance the trips. Homes are to be built, water filtration systems are to be given away. Fathers, mothers and children will be reached with the true salvation of our Lord Jesus. The WHOLE body of Christ is needed to complete His work there! What body part are YOU????

Brown's Sunday Night Suppers (SNS)

Next meeting, May 4th.

The Browns will be on the April Guatemala Mission trip so our next SNS will postpone one week. Please plan to join us SUNDAY, May 4th for a light supper and time to discuss marriage, parenting and life in a fun laid-back setting! 

5:30 pm to 7:30 pm at the Brown's house:
5513 E 104th Street                  

Childcare is provided at the church starting at 5:30 pm, so plan to drop your kiddos there and head to the Browns each of the Sunday nights below:

3/30, 4/27, 5/25, 6/22, 7/27, 8/24, 9/28, 10/26, 11/23 and perhaps 12/28

The Browns home:  5513 E 104th Street,
                             Tulsa, OK 74137

Marriage Builder & Date Night

Next Date Night is April 12!!!!

The February 8th Date Night Rocked!!!
Only about one more week until another date night opportunity! A great time for couples to build their marriage and go on a date. Invite friends - first time for them is free! I

A great time for couples to build their marriage and go on a date. Invite friends - first time for them is free if you sign them up as their Connect Couple! Join us for a great time for couples to build their marriage and have a date night the second Saturday of every month in 2014 thru November. Here is the schedule-

5:10 PM Marriage Builder discussion in our Chapel
5:30 PM Couples leave for date
7:45 PM Parents pick up kids

Church-Wide Scripture Memory

Join our church family as we all memorize scripture together in 2014 starting Monday, December 30. Click here to review your options to help you learn the weekly scripture verses together in songs, recordings, games, and opportunities in our worship services. Click here to check out the many options for scripture memory.

 Tuesday Morning Bible Study

Tuesdays - 6:45am - 8:00am - STBC Conference Room

Every Tuesday morning a group of FiT men gather to study the week's Quarterly lesson and prepare for Sunday. We share prayer requests and try to make it through the lesson (with varying levels of success). This group is open to anyone who would like to attend. The conference room is just beside the church office at the main entrance. 



 Sunday Bible Study classes

Sunday Bible Study classes are designed to accommodate whatever section of life's road you're on. They are loosely based on demographics, but you're encouraged to find a class that is the best "fit" for you.

The First Leg
Young couples without children through families with a toddler
Teacher: Stephen Bell

The Journey 1
Families with preschoolers through families with early elementary children.
Teachers: Anthony Wilson, Doug McFarlin, John Zimmerman

The Journey 2
Families with preschoolers through families with early elementary children.
Teachers: Mike Pierce, Wes Webb, Brian Easterwood, Mark Thompson

The Journey 3
Families with preschoolers through families with early elementary children.
Teachers: Robin Curry, Nathan Sweaney

 Get Involved!

Looking for a way to get involved? FIT has many opportunities! Current needs are Host Couples to be greeters on a rotating basis for FIT each Sunday morning, Social Committee for FIT, FIT Webmaster, FIT Graphic Artist, Outreach and Inreach for all of FIT and for each individual class. Please email Michael or Carol at or to let us know how you would like to help. If you have some other way you'd like to be involved, by all means, let us know - there is no limit on creativity in the Body of Christ!